Presentations Since 2012 ( Over 300 )

Delieverd a Master Class lecture on Erectile Dysfunction, for the European Society for Sexual medicine at a Video Conference Meeting from Holland and across 10 cities of India held on 10^th April 2016 held at Hotel Trident BKC, Mumbai.

Presented a Scientific paper at the Annual meeting of the Delhi Diabetic Forum  DIABCON 2016 on Erectile Dysfunction and Diabetes at Hotel Royal Plaza on 9^th April 2016  held at New Delhi

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Workshop “Quo Vadis” Where are we going ? On Career Choice in Sexual health, organized by Mind Mandala and DeSouza foundation at St Pauls Auditorium, Bandra for psychologists on 7^th April 2016 at Mumbai.

Presented a Scientific paper at the 11^th National Scientific Conference of All India Association for Advancing Research in Obesity AIAAROCON 2016 on Obesity and Sexual Dysfunction on 26-27^th March 2016 held at IMA MW in Mumbai.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at Thane API held by Pfizer to speak on Management of Erectile dysfunction on 17^th March 2016 held at Thane.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Sexology Conference held by Kolhapur Medical Association KMA 2016 to speak on Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation at KMA House on 6^th March 2016 at Kolhapur.

Presented a Scientific Papers at the Mens Health World Congress 2016 MHWC 2016 on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction and Is there a Link between Ageing and Metabolic Syndrome with Erectile Dysfunction at  Hotel Pullman, from 26^th through 28^th February 2016 held in New Delhi.

Invited as a Faculty at the 10^th Annual Conference of Diabetes in Pregnancy Study group India DIPSI 2016 held at J W Marriott on 20^th and 21^st February 2016

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 8^th International Conference of Sexology ICONS 2016 on Sexual health in Hypertension at Le Meridien on 14^th February 2016 held in Chennai

Presented  a Scientific Paper at the Annual Conferenfe of the Research Society of Study of Diabetes in India Maharashtra Chapter  MAHA RSSDI 2016 on Male Sexual dysfunctions at Sarovar Balaji on 13^th February 2016 held at Solapur

Presented a Scientific paper at the 4^th Annual Conference of the Research Society of Study of diabetes in India  Rajasthan Chapter RAJ RSSDI 2016 on Sexual dysfunction in Diabetes at Indana Palace on 6^th – 7^th February 2016 held at Jodhpur.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 71^st Annual Conference of Association of Physicians of India  APICON 2016 on Sexual dysfunctions in Men and Women at Hyderabad International Convention Center, on 31^st January 2016 held in Hyderabad.

Delivered a Scientific talk at the First Men’s Health Symposium on Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions organized by Men’s Health Society of India at Hinduja Surgical khar west on 26^th January 2016 in Mumbai

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the National Conference of Sexology  to speak on Novel Sex Therapies for Erectile Dysfunction & Premature Ejaculations held at Contour Resort on 24^th January 2016 in Changacerry, Kochi

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Endocrine Society of Odisha  Annual Conference ESOCON 2016 to speak on Endocrinology of Love at Mayfair Convention 15-17^th January 2016 held in Bhubaneswar.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 5^th Annual Conference of the North East Bombay  Society of Indian medical Association NEBS 2016 to speak on Male Sexual dysfunction at  The Powai Residence on 10^th January 2016 at Mumbai

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 3^rd Annual Conference of the Diabetes Club of Dindigul DCDCON 2015 to speak on Erectile Dysfucntion..the tip of a iceberg held at PK Mahal on 3^rd January 2016 at Dindigul.

Invited to present a Scientific Paper at the 90^th Annual Conference of the Indian Medical Association Head Qrs with Delhi Medical Association NATCON 2015, on Male Sexual Dysfunction on Sunday 27^th December 2015 held at Le Meridian, New Delhi.

Convened and Moderated the first Sexycon 2015, conference held under the aegies of Indian Medical Association Mumbai West Branch  on Sunday 20^th December 2015 held in Mumbai.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the RSSDI Haryana Chapter  Diabetographia 2015 to speak on Erectile Dysfunction and Diabetes on Sunday 13^th December 2015 held in Gurgaon.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 2^nd NUCD 2015 held by Kanungo Diabetes Society to speak on Sexual Dysfunction in Diabetes held on Saturday 12^th December 2015 held in Bhubaneshwar.

 

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 2^nd Society of South Asia Sexual Medicine Binneal Conference SASSM 2015 to deliver 2 talks on  Pathogenesis of Erectile dysfunction and Heart and Sexual dysfunction on 5^th-6^th December 2015 held at Dhaka Bangla Desh.

Invited to deliver a lecture on Sexuality and Modern Corporate Lifestyle at the 16^th Annual National Conference of Association of Industrial Psychiatry of India ancaipi 2015 on 28^th November 2015 at Hotel Palledium, Mumbai.

Invited to conduct a Symposium on Diabetes and Sexual dysfunction DIACON 2015 organized  by Diabetes India  on 22^nd November 2015 at Ahmedabad.

Invited to deliver a talk on Male Sexual Dysfunctions in Diabetes at a Update in Complications in Diabetes at Mahatma Gandhi Memorial Hospital on 17^th November 2015  at MGM  Hospital, Kamote, New Mumbai.

Invited to deliver a educational talk on Diabetes and Sexual dysfunction at the All India Prevention of blindness due to Diabetes campaign at Indian Medical Association Bhubaneshwar Branch on 8^th November 2015 on 8^th at IMA house in Bhubaneshwar, Odhisa

Invited to deliver a educational talk on Art and Science of Sexual fitness as Oration of Dr Nirupama Rath at the Indian Medical association Cuttack Branch on 4^th November 2015 at IMA House Cuttack, Odhisa

Invited to have a panel discussion and give Indian Perspective of Sexual dysfunction in Males at the 2^nd Asia Pacific Mens Health forum held on 31^st October and 1^st November 2015 at Hotel So Sofitel in Bangkok Thailand.

Invited to conduct a workshop on Sexual dysfunction for Physicians at  2^nd Annual Medical Conference of Maharastra Association of Physicians of India MAPCON 2015 held on 29^th-30^th October 2015 held at Nagpur

Invited as  Guest Speaker at a Asian Society of Continuos Medical Education  to speak on Erectile Dysfunction on Saunday 25^h October 2015 at Blu Raddison, Temple Bay mahaballipuram, Chennai.

Invited as  Guest Speaker at a Diabetes Summit 2015 to speak on Sexual complications of Diabetes on Saunday 18^th October 2015 at Hotel Hyatt, Ahmedabad

Presented a Scientific Paper at  the International CME on Mens Health on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction on Sunday 11^th October 2015 at PGIMER, RML Hospital New Delhi.

Invited as a Guest speaker at the Annual Conference of Indian Medical Association Chinchwad, Pimpri and Bhusari IDCON 2015, to speak on Naughty after forty on Saturday 10^th of October 2015 at VITS, Chincwad.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 29^th Annual Conference of Indian Association of Clinical Medicine, Ludhiana Chapter IACMCON2015, to speak on Beyond Sildenafil on 9-11^th October 2015 held at Hotel Aveda Ludhiana

Invited as a Guest speaker to deliver a Scientific paper on Diabetes and Erectile dysfunction at the Cardiodiabetes Update of the Association of Physicians of India Gulbarga Chapter on the 4^th October  at the M R Medical College, Gulbarga.

Invited as a Guest speaker to deliver a Scientific paper on Novel Therapies in Erectile Dysfunction at the Annual Conference of Association of Physicians of India Noida Chapter UPAPICON2015. on 3^rd October at Hotel Blu Raddison. Noida.

Invited as a Guest Speaker to speak to Ladies wing of Lions Club of Carter Road, bandra on Why Men Cheat on 27^th September at Hotel Taj Lands End.

Invited as a Guest Speaker to deliver two talks at 2^nd Annual Conference of Malwa Branch of Association of Physicians of India MALCON2015, on Erectile dysfunction and Female Sexual Dysfunction on 20^th September 2015 held at Bhatinda Punjab.

Presented a Scientific paper at the 31^st Annual Conference of Council for Sex Education and Parenthood International CSEPI2015 on Ageing and Sexuality on 11-13^th September 2015 held at Kochi

Invited as a Guest speaker at the Clinical Update of Apollo Sugar Clinics to speak on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction held on 6^th September at Bangalore

Presented a Scientific paper on CVD and Sex at the 10^th World Congress of Preventive Clinical Cardiology and Cardiology Imaging WPCCICI 2015 on 3^rd-5^th September2015 held at Mt Abu

Presented a Scientific paper at the 5^th Diabetes Update DIACON 2015 on Erectile Dysfunction in Diabetes held at Bagalkot, on 30^th August 2015

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 24^th Hypertension Society of India’s Annual Conference, HSICON2015 on Hypertension and Sexual Health at Shri Aurbindo Institute of Medical Science, on 22-23^rd August 2015, held in Indore

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Association of Physicians of India  Chennai Chapter  Annual Meeting to speak on Female Sexual Dysfunction on 15-16^th August 2015 held in Chennai

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the College of Physicians and Surgeons  to speak on Diabetes and Sexual dysfunctions in Males and Females at CPS Parel Mumbai on 10^th August 2015.

 

Presented two Scientific Papers  at 3^rd Jothydev Professional Education Forum JPEF 2014 on Barriers and Challenges  in management of Sexual Dysfunctionin Diabetes and  Is Erectile Dysfunction  a Boon !! on 8^th and 9^th August 2015 held in Trivandrum.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the Update on Obesity and its associated disorders , organized by  Lapro-Obeso Center (LOC) in association with Defeat Diabetes and Obesity Foundation (DODF) on  Diabesity and Sexual health held in Pune  on 2^nd August 2015

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 2^nd Dr Mohan’s International Update in Diabetes on Recent Advances in Treatment of Erectile Dysfunction in Diabetes held in Chennai from 31^st July-2^nd August 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 11^th Annual Conference of the Association of Physicians of India Tamilnadu Chapter TAPICON2015 on Novel Therapies for Erectile Dysfunction held in Thanjavur from 3-5^th July 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 21^st National Conference of Environment Sciences and Pulmonary Diseases NESCON 2015  on Sex and Respiratory Diseases held in Mumbai on  28^th June 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Innovcare Lifesciences to launch a Phytoneutraceutical   E Drive at Thane Medical Association CME on Erectile Dysfunction, held in Thane, Mumbai  on 26^th June 2015

Invited as a Publication Committee Member at the 4^th International Consultation of Sexual Medicine. 4^th ICSM,meeting of the ISSM held in Madrid, Spain from 19-21^st June 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Male Sexual Dysfunctions in Diabetes at the Kovai Udate in Diabetes 2015  CUPID 2015,held in Coimbatore on 14^th June 2015

Presented a Scientific Paper  on Erectile Dysfunction in Diabetes at Karanataka Association of Physicians of India KAPICON 2015 held in Vijaypur on 13^th June 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker to a Diabetes Educator Program organized by LIHS (Life Supporteres of India Health Sciences) to speak on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction in Mumbai on 6^th June 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Treatment Intensification Summit 2015, to Reduce Diabetes complication to speak on Prevention of Penile Attack and Female Impotence in Diabetes at Cherai Beach Resort, Cochin on 31^st May 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Indo American Society to deliver a prestigious Lincoln Oration and talk on Common Sexual Problems in Males and Females at Lincoln Auditorium, Indo American Society Mumbai on 27^th May 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Jabalpur Diabetes Update 2015 to conduct a workshop on Erectile Dysfunction , organized by Jabalpur Endocrine Society held in Jabalpur on 24^th May 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the Annual meeting of  American Urology Association, AUA2015 on Infertility and Sexual Dysfunction held at New Orleans USA on May 16-19^th 2015

Invited as a Chief Guest and a Guest Speaker at the Installation Ceremony of Newly elected IMA Shivneri team for the year 2015-16 and delivered a talk on Sex and Health held  at Shivneri  on 3^rd May 2015

Prsented a Scientific Paper at the 9^th Annual Conference of Research Society of Study of Diabetes in India Maharashtra Chapter RSSDI 2015 on Erectile Dysfunction held at Pune on 1^st -3^rd May 2015

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the  Diabetes Update organized by Thane Medical Association on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction held at  Kaushalya Hospital on 19^th April 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 6^th World Congress of Diabetes India on Female  Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes held at Chennai from 9-12^th April 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 10^th National Conference of Diabetes in Pregnancy Study Group in India DIPSI 2015, on Conjugal Life in GDM held in Ooty from 27-29^th March 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker for a CME organized by Goregaon Medical Association GMA to speak on Novel Therapies in Management of Erectile Dysfunction and also launched Tadalafil  Mouth Dissolving Film at Feast India, Mumbai on 15^th March 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker for a Webinar on Ignitor Ed apromising  Neutraceutical  used in Management of Male Sexual Dysfunction on 14^th March 2015 at Mumbai

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the National Sexology Summit 2015 held under the aegis of Council of Sex education nd Parenthood International  CSEPI to speak on Role nd Responsibilities of  Sexual Medicine Practitioner which was held in Konark on 28^th Feb-1^st March 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Annual Meeting of Lions Club of Crescent to speak on Naughty @ Forty at Hotel Diplomat, Mumbai on 25^th Februry 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Preconference CME of the General Practitioners Association Greater Mumbai held at Bombay Hospital to speak on Sexual Emergencies on 22^nd February 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 70^th Annual Medical Conference of Assoiciation of Physicians of India APICON 2015 to speak on the Art and Science of Sexual Fitness for Physicians held at Gurgaon from 19^th to 21st February 2015.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Mega Conference organized by IMA  Dhule, UNMESH 2015, to give two lectures one on Valentine’s Day, i.e. 14^th February 2015 on Sexual Health for Couples and on 15^th February  2015 on Heart and Sex.

Invited as a Guest Speaker for a Seminar on Diabetes at the Mahatma Gandhi Memorial Hospital,Kamothe, New Mumbai to speak on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction on 8^th February 2015

Invited as the only Guest Speaker at the Launch of “IGNITOR” a compound  used for Hypo Active Sexual Desire Disorders in Khartoum,  SUDAN,  on 30^th January 2015.

Invited   as a Guest  Speaker  at the 2^ndNational Obesity Surgery Society of India OSSICON 2015  to speak on Psycho sexual issues in Obesityand also Moderated the Post Graduate training in Management of Obesity, held in Mumbai on 23-25^th January 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper at the 14^th International Symposium of diabetes on Diabetes and Sexual dysfunction held in Mumbai on 10-11^th January 2015.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Female Sexual Dysfunction at the Symposium on Infertility organized by Maharashtra Chapter of FOGSI held in Mumbai on the 3^rd January 2015

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the API DIAS  symposium a Association of Physicians of India initiative to speak on Newer advances in Sex Therapy held in Mumbai on 28^th December 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the 89^th Annual Medical Conference  of the Indian Medical Association  organized by Gujarat Medical Association and Ahmedabad Medical Association, IMA NATCON 2014 to speak on  Recent Advances in Treatment of Erectile Dysfunction at the Gujarat University Convention Center held in Ahmedabad on 27^th December 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Pharma Leaders Award Summit Make in India to speak on Sex Education and Counseling in India for CEO of Pharmaceutical companies of India in Mumbai on 26^th December 2014.

Invited as  a Guest Speaker at the 23^rd Annual Conference of General Practitioners Pune  GPCON 2014 to speak on Beyond Viagra , in Pune on 13^th December 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sex Violence and Men’s Psyche at the Columbia University’s Annual Programme EVOKE SEXUALITY 2014 held in Mumbai on 4^th December 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sex Matters at the 21^st National Conference of Indian Association for Social Psychiatry NCIASP 2014 held at Mysuru on 23^rd November 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Erectile Dysfunction and Hypogonadism in Indian Diabetics, western India Sexual Health Survey at the prestigiousMMS Ahuja Symposium at 42^nd Annual Conference of Research Society for the Study of Diabetes in India, RSSDI 2014 held in Bangaluru on 22^nd November 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Penile health in Diabetes at the 44^th National Endocrine Congress, organized by Endocrine Society of India ESICON 2014 held at PGI Chandigarh on 16^th November 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Management of Erectile Dysfunction beyond Viagra at the 25^th Annual Conference of Association of Physicians of India, Rajasthan Chapter RAJAPICON 2014 held in Jaipur on 15^th November 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at IMPACT 2014, A CME organized by Biocon to commemorate the 10^th Anniversary of BIOCON at Bangalore on 9^th November 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Emergencies at the 16^th Annual Conference of Society for Emergency Medicine in India EMCON 2014 held in Mumbai  from 6-9^th November 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Males Sexual Dysfunction at the 23^rd Annual Conference of  Andhra Pradesh Diabetes Federation, APDF 2014 held at Ongole, Vijaywada on 18-19^th October 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on September Sex ( Sex in Elderly) at the Geriatric Society of India Conference GERICON 2104 held at Lonavala on the 11-12^th October 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Management of Male Sexual Dysfunction and its management beyond Viagra at the National Family Physicians Associations Conference FPANATCON2014  held at Surat from 3-4^th October 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Thyroid and  Sexual Functions at the Asia Oceania Thyroid Association Congress 2014 held at Cochin from 25-28^th September 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Management of Male Sexual Dysfunction and its management beyond Viagra at the National Family Physicians Associations Conference FPANATCON2014  held at Surat from 3-4^th October 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at Cochin Physicians Association to speak on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction at Cochin on 26^th September 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Psychosexual Issues in Obesity at the First Asian BMI – Bariatric & Metabolic Integrated Consensus  Summit held under the auspicies of IEF, AIAARO and OSSI’s as Metasurgasia 2014 held in Mumbai from 19-21^st September 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper at Tamilnadu RSSDI Annual Confernce  TRAC2014 on Beyond PDE5 inhibitors held in Coimbatore on 6-7^th September 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper at 30^th National Conference of Sexology organized by Council of Sex Education & Parenthood International CSEPI  held in Navi Mumbai 22-24^th August 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper  at Jothydev Professional Education Forum JPEF 2014 to speak on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction Newer advances on -16^th August 2014 held in Trivandrum.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Health in Hypertension at the 23^rd Annual Conference of Hypertension Society of India held in New Delhi from 9-10^th August 2014.

Presented a Scientific Talk on Management of Sexual Dysfunctions in Diabetes for the post graduate students at the College of Physicians and Surgeons at Parel on 4^th August 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at DESERT 2014, A Annual Conference of Diabetes Club of Bangalore to speak on Erectile Dysfunction and Diabetes at Bangalore on 2^nd August 2014.

Invited as a Member of Consensus Committee at the Advisory Board meeting and Panel Discussion for Management of Erectile Dysfunction with Dr Rosie King from Australia and other leading Urologists, Diabetologists, and Sexologists organized by Pfizer at Mumbai on 1^st August 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at Indian Psychatric Society, Tamilnadu Chapter Annual Conference TANPSYCON 2014 to speak on Psychological Aspects of Erectile Dysfunction held at Trichi  from 26-27^th July 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker  at Dr Mohan’s International Diabetes Update 2014, on Diabetes and Male Sexual Dysfunction, held at the Leela  Palace Chennai from 11^th July 2014 to 13^th July 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Neutraceuticals in Sexual Dysfunctions for Sanofi Aventis Research Council at Hotel Lalit Intercontinental, Mumbai on 10^th July 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Diabetes Educators Programme of Govt of India, to speak on Diabetes and Sexual dysfunctions at Life Supporters of India in Mumbai on 9^th July 2014

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Indian Medical Association Mumbai west Branch  to give a talk on Beyond Viagra during the Doctor’s Day Celebration at IMA house, Mumbai on the 6^th July 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the National Academy of Medical Specialties Annual Conference  AMSCON2014, organized by South Kolkatta Medical Association  to speak on Naughty at Forty, held in Kolkatta from 28^th -29^th June 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker at the Research Society for the Study of Diabetes in India (RSSDI) Maharashtra Chapter Annual Conference to speak on Sexual Dysfunction in Diabetes and After Sildenafil what next , held at Nashik from 6^th -8^th June 2014

Invited to Moderate sessions at the Diabetes India Regional Update held at Srinagar on May 30-31^st May 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker by Jamnagar Medical Association, to speak on Management of Erectile Dysfunction Beyond Viagra held at Jamnagar on 18^th May 2014

Invited as a Guest Speaker by Association of Physicians of Rajkot, to speak on Management of Erectile Dysfunction Beyond Viagra held at Rajkot on 17^th May 2014

 

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction at a conference on Challenges in Diabetes organized by United Diabetes Forum held in Mumbai on 19^th – 20^th April 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Counseling a patient of Erectile Dysfunction and Igniting their desire at Andrology Symposium for South Asian Society for Sexual Medicine (SASSM) to mark 50^th year Golden Jubilee Celebration of Dayanand Medical College at Ludhiana on 12^th April 2014

Invited as a Guest Speaker at Inaugural CME programme of the new IMA Branch IMA Shivneri to speak on Diabetes and Sex at Narayangaon, Shivneri on 30^th March 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper at The International Conference on Child and Women Mental Health on Aging and Sexual Health in Women at Chennai on 21-23^rd March 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper at US Update on Complications of Diabetes on Should Diabetologists bother to treat Sexual Dysfunctions at Chennai on 15-16^th March 2014

Invited as a Guest Speaker for Coimbatore Urologist Association to address on Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorders at Coimbatore on 28^th February 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker for Trichi Renal Sciences Association to address on  Male Sexual Dysfunctions at Trichinapari on 27^th February 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes at the 69^th Annual Conference of Association of Physicians of India APICON 2014 held at Ludhiana from 20-23^rd February 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on Approach to Sexual dysfunction at the 43^rd Annual conference of GPA GB Mumbai from 7^th to 9^th Feb 2014

Presented a Scientific Paper on ED and Diabetes at the 4^th Anti Ageing Conference ENDOMEDICON 2014 held in Mumbai from 14-16^th Feb 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Obesity and Sexual Dysfunction at 10^th Conference of Obesity and Metabolic Surgery of India OSSICON 2014 held at Ahmedabad on 31^st and 1^st Feb 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Erectile Dysfunction and Diabetes at 13^th International Symposium on Diabetes, MAYO Update, IDSI 2014, held at Mumbai on 18-19^th January 2014

Invited as a Guest Speakerr to address on An Approach to Erectile Dysfunction at Indian Medical Association Mumbai West held in Mumbai on 16^th December 2014.

Invited as a Guest Speaker to address on Whats beyond Viagra at the Annual Conferrence of Kandivilli Medical Association held in Mumbai on 12^th January 2014

Invited as a Guest Speaker to  address on  Novel Therapies for Sexual Disorders for Thane Medicos at Thane on 30^th December 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexuality in India at the 74^th National Annual Medical Conference of Indian Medical Association HQ IMANATCON 2013 held at Rajahmudry  on 28^th  December 2013

Invited as a Guest Speaker and Panelist at the 6^th National Pharma Leaders Awards Summit to speak on Ethics in Medical Profession held at Mumbai on 27^th December 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Obesity and Sexual Dysfunction at 9^th National Conference of AIAARO AIAAROCON Kolkatta 2013 held at Kolkatta on 21-22^nd December 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Male Sexual dysfunction at the Diabetes Summit 2013 of the Indian College of Physician a wing of Association of Physicians of India held in Chennai on 14^th -15^th December 2013.

 

Presented a Scientific Paper on Newer Dimensions in Sexuality and Sex Education in SAARC Countries at the 7^th SAARC Psychiatry Federation International Conference held in Mysore 29^th November – 1^st December 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Early Ejaculations at MASTACON 2013, held at Indian Medical Association  Maharashtra State held at Ahmed Nagar on 24^th November 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Sex at the 2^nd National Association of Diabetes Educators conference held at Nagpur on 23^rd November 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Hypertension and Sex at  the annual conference of International Society for Hypertension, BPCON 2013 held at Lucknow on 16-17^th November 2013

Invited as a Guest Speaker to deliver a talk on Whats new in Sex Therapy at IMA Akluj at Akluj on 13^th November 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Erectile dysfunction and conducted a workshop of the same at the  41^st Research Society for the Study of Diabetes in India (RSSDI 2013) Annual Conference  held at  Greater Noida from 8-10^th November 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Erectile Dysfunction and Diabetes at the International Symposium of Diabetes held under the Auspices of  European Association of Study of Diabetes (EASD) and Diabetacare held at  Bangalore on 1^st November 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Novel treatments in Sexual Desire Disorders at National Conference of Academy of Medical Specialities AMSCON 2013 held at Pune on 26^th -27^th October 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Impact of Diabetes in Sexual Dysfunction at the Tamilnadu Chapter of RSSDI, TRAC 2013, held in Trichinapally on 19-20^th October 2013

Invited as a Guest Speaker to speak on Naughty at Forty  at CIMACON 2013 the First  Conference of Chandrapur IMA held at Chandrapur on 19^th October 2013

Invited as a Guest Speaker to speak on Sexual Health at 40  to the members of Rotary Club of Bombay Pier at Mumbai on 18^th October 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes at MGM Diabecon 2013 a National Symposium on Diabetes held at MGM New Mumbai on 11-12 October 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Counselling for Cancer Survivors on Sexual dysfunctions at a Symposium on Cancer and Sex held at Indian Medical Association on 1^st October 2013.

Invited as a Guest Speaker to address Cancer Survivors on Cancer and Sex for Pranjhar a NGO held in Mumbai on 22^nd September 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Naughty after forty at IDCON 2013 held at Dukes Retreat Lonavala 21-22^nd September 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Phytochemicals in treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions at HUA  held at Hubli on 14^th September 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on ED in Diabetics Is it Different or Difficult at the Diabetes Conference by Diabetes Club of Bangalore DESERT 2013 held in Bangalore on 25^th August 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Mature your Premature Ejaculations at the 29^th Annual Conference of Council of Sex Education and Planned Parenthood International held in Hyderabad on 24^th August 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Office Practice for Sexual Dysfunctions in Diabetics at 8^th National Diabetes Conference DIABECON 2013 held in Chennai  on 18^th August 2013`g2

Presented a Scientific Paper on Newer technologies in approach and treatment of Sexual disorders in Diabetics at the Jothydev Professional Education Forum Annual CME held in Trivandrum on 17^h August 2013.

Presented a Scientific talk on  Newer therapies in treatment of Sexual Disorders in Diabetes at College of Physicians and Surgeons at CPS College, Mumbai on 5^th of August 2013.

Presented a Scientific paper on Novel Breakthroughs in treatment of Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorders for Gujarat Urology Association at Surat on 3^rd August 2013.

Presented a Scientific paper on Sex and Pregnancy at Association of Fellow Gynaecologists  Symposium Gynaecon 2013 held at IMA MW on 28^th July 2013.

Presented a Scientific paper on Cardiac Diseases and Sex at Cardiological Society of India, Vidharbha Chapter, held at Nagpur on 7^th July 2013.

Presented a Scientific paper on Cancer at Sex at Oncology Symposium of Indian Medical Association Mumbai west, held at IMA House on 16^th June 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on  Sexual Problems In a Diabetic Male at Diabetes Association of India ( Southern Chapter) DIASICON 2013 at Chennai on 15^th June 2013.

Moderated four sessions at the 45^th Annual American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists  AASECT Conference held at Miami USA from 5^th June to 9^th June 2013

Guest Lecture at Rotary Club of Khar at Shubhangam Khar on 31^st May 2013

Guest Lecture at MGM Institute of Health Sciences, New Mumbai on Diabetes and Sex on 29^th April 2014.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Computers in Medicine at the CME held at Indian Medical Association Mumbai West Branch on 25^th April 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Male and Female Sexual Dysfunction and also conducted a workshop of  Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes at 5^th World Congress of Diabetes India at the Le Meridien held at Kochi from 18^th April to 21^st April 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Graceful Ageing at the launch of  the state of art technological equipment to detect Pre diabetic state, at the Institute of Preventive Cardiaology (IPC), held at Birla Matushree Sabhagruha,Mumbai on the 7^th April 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Stress free Married life and Graceful Ageing at the International Womens day Celebration at the Bhiwandi Medical Practitioners Association at Bhiwandi on 31^st March 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction at the First South Asian Society for Sexual Medicine(SASSM) in Collaboration with International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM) held at Bangalore, India on 29^th March 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Respectable Ageing at Vidharbha API (VAPICON 2013) held at Yavatmal on 23^rd February 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Naughty at 40 at IMA Wardha on 24^th February 2013.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Health at 40 at the National (APICON 2013) held at Coimbatore on 2^nd February 2013.. The talk was delivered by Dr Shashank Joshi.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Diabetes and Sex at the Diabetes and Counseling Symposium held at the Indian Medical Association MW  on 24^th January 2013

Presented a Scientific Paper on Igniting your Sexual Desire at the 87th Annual Indian Medical conference held at Kanyakumari (IMACON 2012) on 27^th -28^th December 2012.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Secrets of Happy and Stress free Marriage Life at the Annual Conference of Rudrapur, IMA  ( Uttaracon 2012)  on 1-2 December 2012.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sex Stimulants at  Association  of Physicians of India Rajasthan Chapter, RAJAPICON 2012 held in Bhilwara from 3-4^th November 2012.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Health at 40 at the Indian Medical Association Mumbai West Branch at a Symosium on Menopause and Andropause on 1^stNovember 2012

Presented a Scientific Paper on Newer Breakthroughs in treatment of Erectile Dysfunction at RSSDI 2012 held at Chennai from 26-28^th October 2012.

Presented a Scientific paper on Naughty at forty  at the IMACGPCON North Zone, organized by IMA Uttranchal and  held at Nanital on 7^th October 2012

Presented a Scientific  paper on Ignite your Sexual Desires along with  Eminent AndroSurgeon Dr Rupin Shah and ACE Endocrinologist Dr Shashank Joshi in Mumbai on 22^nd September 2012

Moderated a session on Peyronies Disease at the International Society of Sexual Medicine, Annual Conference held at Chicago USA  26^th August-30^th August 2012

Presented a Scientific talk on Naughty at Forty at the WZ AMSCON ( Association of Medical Specialties Conference at Dhule on 21-22 July 2012

Moderated a Session of Sex ED Justice at the 44^th Annual AASECT Conference held in Austin, Texas, USA from 6^th through 10^th June 2012.

Presented a paper on Computers in Medicines at the Medical Masters Voice Conference held at Birla, Mumbai on 1^st thru 3^rd June 2012

Moderated a Session at the Annual meet of Society for the Studies of Science of Sexuality SSSS at Bloomington, Indiana University , USA from 17^th May through 20^th May 2012.

Presented a Scientific talk on Thyroid Disorders and Sexual Dysfunctions at the Indian Thyroid Society Conference ITSCON2012 held in Jaipur on 25-26 February 2012.

Presented a Scientific talk on Sexual Dysfunctions in Diabetes at Diabetes Conclave orgainized by RSSDI Gujarat Chapter at Ahmedabad on 19^th February 2012

Presented a Scientific talk on Role of Touch and Aphrodisiacs at the 6^th International Conference of Sexology held in Chennai on 11-12^th February 2012.

Presented a Scientific talk on Breakthroughs in Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes at the College of Physicians and Surgeons for Post graduate students on 7^th of February 2012

Presented a scientific talk on Diabetes and Sexual Dysfunction at the 11^th International Symposium on Diabetes IDS 2012 held in Mumbai on 20-22 January 2012. 

Presented a Scientific Paper on Female Sexual Dysfunctions at 86^th Annual IMA Conference NATCON 2011 held at Bengaluru on the 27-29^th December 2011

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sex Stimulants at 22^nd Annual Conference of Associations of Physicians of India- Rajasthan Chapter held at Jaipur on the 12^th November 2011

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Dysfunction and Diabetes at the 39^th Annual meet of RSSDI 2011 held at Mumbai on4-6^th November 2011.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Male Sexual Dysfunctions at the 2^nd International Congress of Family Doctors held at Chennai on 29-20^th October 2011.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Recent Advances in Management of Erectile Dysfunction at the Women’s Health Conference of the IMA Pune held on 9^th October 2011.

Participated as  a chair in a Scientific debate on Testosterone and Late Onset Hypogonadism at the 8^th International Men’s Congress held in Vienna, Austria from 2^nd to 5^th October 2011.

Presented a talk on Sex Again why not  at the IMA AMS  Annual Conference at IMA Mumbai west in Mumbai on the 25^th of September 2011

Presented a  Scientific paper at National Symposium on Obesity at P D Hinduja Hospital on 24^th September 2011.

Presented a Scientific Paper of Dream Sex at finger tips. at the 27^th National Conference of Sexology at Khajuraho on the 18^th of September 2011

Presented A Scientific talk at the University of California Los Angeles  under the aegis of International Association of Sex Research IASR on 12 th of August 2011.

Presented a Scientific paper on Sex and Stimulants at the  Nidus Conference on 4^th of June 2011 held in Mumbai

Invited as a Visiting Physician to the Mayo Clinic Rochester MN, USA from 2^nd to 13^th May 2011.

 

Presented a  Scientific paper on Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction at the Annual Conference on Code 2011 ( Controversies to Consensus in Obesity, Diabetes & Endocrinology a CME of Harvard Medical School held at Pune in April 9-10 , 2011

Presented a Scientific Paper on Sexual Dysfunction and Obesity  at the National  Annual Conference of All India Association for Advancing Research in Obesity held at Ahmedabad on 18-19 March 2011.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Aging and Sexual Functions at The Annual Conference of Association of Medical Consultants held in Jan 2011 at Dhule.

Presented a Scientific Paper on Aphrodisiacs today at the 26^th National Conference on Sexology at  Chennai in 2010.

Presented Scientific paper on Sexual Myths and Facts at First International Conference of Asia Oceanic  Federation of Sexology held in Bangkok in Nov 2006

Presented Scientific  Paper on Erectile Dysfunction in Diabetes, at the Mayo Clinic’s International Diabetic Symposium in Jan 2007

Presented Scientific paper at RSSDI Annual Meet at Calcutta on Erectile Dysfunction in Nov 2007.

Conducted a 20 hour module on Basic Skills in Counseling at Hinduja Hospital.

Conducted workshop and hands on training on cadavers for intra-articular, Injections..

Conducted Seminars on Sexual Dysfunctions, Sexually transmitted Diseases, Immunology, Infectious Diseases, Virology and Genetics for Family Physicians..

Presented Several Scientific  Papers at the Annual Indian Medical Association and General Practitioner’s Association’s medical conferences.

The Pathology of Desire

Sex is not just a activity , it’s an idea.

Our ideas about sex are so complicated that we make the activity complicated. We have complicated ideas and so have complicated our sex life.  And all this has led to the diminished  quality of sex life, sex has lost its spontaneity,  sacredness, sex has lost its scientific understanding, its simplicity and naturalness. The sex act is no longer become a loving and pleasure act instead its become a nightmarish obsession

By virtue of being born out of sex, it does not follow that we know all there is to know about sex. We are not born experts on love and sex. We have to be educated. We have to  understand what’s the attractions in sex, why there is such a push within us towards it. We have to learn how to use our energy to go through sex in a natural way and then go beyond it to a natural state of celibacy.

Of all the human desires the sexual desire is the strongest. Why do we want what we want and why do we want again and again. Is there a regular frequency of sex expected as the other normal natural body functions. Think of desire as wanting. How many people want (need) to be wanted ? Who really wants to want ?

The sexual desire problem is the process of relationship, Once recognized, sexual desire problems become a way of seeing how relationship function rather than seeing them as a sign of dysfunction or dysregulation in an individual, a relationship, a family or society. So these problems are a form of interpersonal communication.  Some Couples become celibate in attempts to “stop communicating” but even no sex says a lot.

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High and Low (sexual) desires are positions in a system.

Religious orthodoxy, Sexual ignorance, Sexual abuse, Anger, Stress, and problems with intimacy affect desires. High and Low desire are always relational.  Many couples shift sexual desire positions as their relationship evolves.

How do high desire-low desire positions play out sexually?

The low desire individual  usually controls the frequency and occurrence of sex. Low desire can predispose to Sexual dysfunctions, and  Sexual dysfunctions frequently destroys intimacy because partners are distracted from each other by current anxieties and anticipated outcomes. To protect him or herself from frustration and disappointment they attempt self protection by showing low desire . So the “Causation” does not stem from either individual, rather partners co create it. The good news is that this same system can be used to increase partner’s capacity for desire and raise their overall functioning and the quality of their relationship.

The partner with the least sexual desire always controls sex.   

The low desire partner not only controls  when sex occurs, he or she often controls the content and style of sex as well. Even when partners trade high-desire/low –desire roles this system rule still holds. It also applies most times to other relationship issues that require partners willing collaboration ( e.g. having a baby)

The high desire partner complains  of feeling controlled and undesired when the low desire partner declines to have sex.  The low desire partner paradoxically feels inadequate while simultaneously feeling responsible for controlling his or her partners functioning.

Many times the high desire partner increases efforts to cure the low desire partner and attacks his adequacy which perpetuates the problem. The high desire partner  gets more control by becoming more active.While the low desire partner controls the process by doing progressively less. With little to loose and little to gain, the low desire partner adopts a superficial passive acceptance  of inadequacy and appears unmotivated to change.

This frustrates the high desire partner who typically escalates by becoming:

a)    More passively indifferent than the low desire  partner,

b)   More insistent about sexual frequency

c)    Involves in an extramarital affair. or even threatens to do so.

 

These non sexual interactions which thus follow are called as incongruous power hierarchies.

Why should you blame the mirror for what it reflects ? What is the fault of the snake if we are scared of it. What is the fault of heights if we are scared of it. Our biggest culprit today is our belief system, which is ancient and over thousand years old and our humanity is a byproduct of this culture and yet the human is blamed for being wrong, and not the culture. So Its amazing to see more love and healthy relationships amongst birds, insects  and trees who do not have any religion or culture.

So desire is a systemic process driven and modulated by differentiation that makes relationships for  self validation, the tendency to validate oneself emotionally through the reactions of the other and the cultural adherence  are heart of the problem.

Love is within every human being, hidden inside, it has not to be searched  from somewhere, it is there. It is the very need and longing of life within every soul on this earth,  it is the very decor of life within every one.. Its like a sculptor who works with a rock  and with a chisel and hammer  makes a wonderful statue.. Actually speaking the statue is actually hidden inside, somehow the useless mass over it was brilliantly separated.. So the question is not how to produce love and harmony in all but how to uncover it in all ?  No Pharmacotherapy but Intensive couple counseling has helped resolve the desire issues.

 

 

“FOREPLAY”

Every Sex play  is divided into three phases each transcends into the other. The first and foremost is Foreplay, which transcends into Interplay (Intercourse) and this follows the most forgotten Afterplay.

In love making foreplay is very important and can be said to be the most passionate thing to do to ignite the fire in your minds. Foreplay if done right can leave you having the most lovely time. But, if hurriedly approached and thrown together it can show your lack of skill, ability and overall appreciation of your partner..

Foreplay refers to a wide variety of erotic stimulation that precedes “real” sex or sexual intercourse. However, behaviors that commonly are labeled as foreplay are pleasurable sexual activities in their own right and need not be thought of only as preliminary to other activities.

As part of a broader sexual interaction, foreplay is considered to be an essential component that stimulates and prepares the body and the mind/emotions to move through the phases of the sexual response cycle in preparation for orgasm.

In the era of AIDS, there has been growing emphasis on sexual contact that does not lead to intercourse. Some forms of this behavior, in which orgasm occurs without inserting the penis into the vagina or any other body cavity, have been referred to as outercourse.

The most important ingredient of foreplay is Vitamin T (Touch). Skin is the largest sex organ and the whole body is a Erogenous Zone and touching forms the main element of foreplay  because the surface of the body is covered with many receptor cells (nerve endings) that transmit pleasurable sensations to the brain. Some parts of the body, particularly the clitoris, penis, nipples, fingertips, palms, lips, tongues, and soles of the feet have more densely packed nerve endings and  all forms of pleasure during foreplay are transmitted through the skin. Consequently, caresses, hugging, holding hands, and related acts of physical intimacy, in addition to expressing key cultural meanings about caring, safety, and arousal, are important acts of foreplay.

Many people find kissing to be the fundamental act of foreplay. Kissing involves a range of behaviors from very light lip-to-lip contact, to what is often referred to as “deep” or French kissing, in which partners rub their tongues against each other and over other mouth surfaces. Generally, kissing is considered to be an extremely intimate and pleasurable act because it involves direct face-to-face contact and because the mucous membranes that cover the lips and mouth have an especially dense supply of nerve endings. Some individuals are particularly sensitive around their ears, inner thighs, or lower stomach, while breasts and nipples (for both women and men) often are highly preferred places for caressing and oral stimulation.

In addition to various sites around the body, most people are quite responsive to manual or oral contact with their pubic area, although the precise spot that is most arousing varies. For men, the underside of the full length of the penis, the head of the penis, the scrotum, or the area between the end of the scrotum and the anus (called the perineum) are often quite sensitive. Oral stimulation and sucking of these areas is referred to as oral sex. For women, the clitoris, vulva, and surrounding areas are especially sensitive. The most sensitive part in the vagina these days is  termed as G-Spot or Grafenberg spot which is located an inch above on the anterior wall of vagina just behind the pubic bone and this  is the most sensitive area and stimulating this site has even reported to have ejaculatory fluid which comes out from Skene’s glands.

For both women and men, anal stimulation may be highly stimulating  though some find manual, oral or penile stimulation of the anus to be unattractive or inhibitive.

It is sometimes said that the human body’s most erogenous zone is the mind. Foreplay, as a result, is not merely an issue of physical stimulation but also one of emotional and mental stimulation. Some people, for example, are stimulated by the physical location and setting in which foreplay occurs.

Certain things like having red soft silky sheets, blankets on the bed, red lingerie,  feeding each other with red cherries, grapes strawberries, blindfolding one of the partners and exploring each others body parts, sensual music, sensual massage with aromatic oils, sensual bathing together , nibbling, biting of nails etc also set in the ignition or are seductive and all these can be acts of foreplay.

For some, public displays of affection are highly erotic. Most people are also responsive to verbal stimulation and can become aroused by compliments and strong expressions of affection and caring. Some have personal fantasies about particular locations or activities that they find highly stimulating (e.g., a warm fireplace on a cold night). Consequently, arranging locations or the role-playing of particular desired interactions (sometimes in costume) may be incorporated into foreplay

Some fantasies may involve activities or circumstances, such as acts of dominance or submission, that are only pleasurable as fantasy and would be otherwise unacceptable. Generally, these activities require open communication, a fair degree of disinhibition, and a willingness to appease one’s partner. For some people, even light to moderate pain may be stimulating. Biting or light scratching are common acts of foreplay, but some people prefer spanking or other forms of light physical punishment.

Bondage is also considered quite arousing by some people. Acceptance or rejection of these behaviors varies, and unless a behavior is mutually enjoyable it will not contribute to providing the pleasure and sense of deep relaxation that is the central function of foreplay in human sexual interaction.

Various rubber and electrical devices (such as vibrators), sometimes called “sex toys,” have become popular in recent years. These are readily available in many areas at stores that specialize in adult merchandise. Generally, these stores also sell sexually explicit magazines and videotapes, which some couples incorporate into their foreplay activities.

Every foreplay duration has to be the majority of the time spend during the loveplay and the least time spent is during the Interplay (Intercourse). Having said that one must not forget the most important phase of sex play which is the afterplay during which  I suggest a male partner should always thank and complement the female partner by holding her tight, kissing and hugging her and the duration of afterplay should be more than the interplay. This is the key thing in getting and giving equal gratification and respect to this awesome love play. This also gives not only physical intimacy but the most important emotional intimacy  both of which are the roots of love

The basic ingredients of foreplay are physical and mental/emotional stimulation, trust, and the expression of caring. Acts of foreplay that some individuals or couples find highly erotic may be completely unacceptable to others. Consequently, open discussion, sensitivity, and acceptance are vital to a healthy approach to foreplay

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Sex Terms:

Abstinence

Not engaging in sexual activities. Which sexual activities this refers to are defined by each person.

Acquaintance Rape

When a person uses force or threat of force to have intercourse (vaginal, anal or oral) with someone he or she knows.  Also known as date rape.

Analingus

A sexual activity involving the mouth and/or tongue stimulating a partner’s anus. Also known as rimming.

Aphrodisiac

Named after the Greek goddess Aphrodite, it is something that is supposed to cause sexual arousal in a person.

Arousal

Sexual excitement or stimulation.

Artificial insemination

Artificial insemination is when sperm is placed into a female’s uterus or cervix using artificial means rather than by vaginal intercourse.

Balls

Slang term for a male’s testicles.

Banging

Having sexual intercourse or sex.  “Getting laid.”

Banging

Can mean the act of sex, but is often used to describe a measure of attractiveness. As in, “That girl is bangin’!”

Beat

Slang term for having sex.

Beating the bishop

Slang term for male masturbation.

Beaver

Slang term for a female’s vagina.

Blow Job

Oral sex on a male. Also called “giving head.”

Blue Balls

When a guy gets very sexually excited and doesn’t have an orgasm to release the sexual pressure, a full feeling or an uncomfortable ache occurs in his testicles (balls).  The guy may feel like his testicles will turn blue from the built up pressure; however, his testicles do not change color and there is no damage if the guy doesn’t ejaculate or cum

Body Image

How you see yourself, how you feel others perceive you, and what you believe about your physical appearance. Body Image is influenced more by self-esteem than by how physically attractive you are to others. It is how YOU feel about and in your body.

Boner

When the penis fills with blood in response to sexual excitement and becomes larger and stands away from the body.  Erection.

Boobs

Breasts. Also called “tits” or “titties”.

Box

Slang term for vagina.

Bust a Nut

When a man ejaculates or has an orgasm.

Butch

A gender role meaning mostly masculine and tough. Both guys and girls can be called “butch,” but generally it applies to women. Sometimes it is used to mean “lesbian” although not all lesbians are masculine.

Butt

The fleshy part of the body on which a person sits.  Buttocks.

Camel Toe

When a woman wears very tight clothing that reveals the indent between her labia.

Cherry

Another word for the hymen, which is a thin piece of tissue that partially covers the opening to the vagina in most women.

Chicken Head

A derogatory term for a girl that gives head (blow jobs) frequently.

Choad

A penis that is wider than it is long.

Choking the chicken

Slang term for male masturbation.

Cleaning the pipes

Slang term for male masturbation.

Clit

Slang for  clitoris.

Closeted

A term denoting an individual who is not open about his or her sexual orientation.  Also “in the closet.”

Come Out

The process in which a person acknowledges and shares with others that he or she is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.

Consensual

When each person agrees to engage in sexual behavior. In order for any sexual activity to be consensual, each person must fully understand the situation and the potential consequences. “Consensual sex” means that no one was forced or manipulated in any way to engage in a sexual behavior.

Cooch

Slang term for vagina.

Cootchie

Slang term for a female’s vagina.

Cooter

Slang term for a female’s vagina.

Cross dresser

A person who dresses in the clothing typically associated with a different gender.  Also known as transvestite.

Cum

Slang term for semen. Cum can also be a verb referring to having an orgasm or ejaculating. Both girls and guys use this term to refer to their orgasms and sexual fluids, although it is more common for referring to a guys’ orgasm, ejaculation or semen.

Cunnilingus

Licking or sucking a woman’s clitoris or vulva.

Cyberbully

A child, preteen or teen who willfully and repeatedly harasses, threatens torments or humiliates another child, preteen or teen using e-mail, instant messaging, the Internet, digital technology or a mobile phone. When an adult is involved in any of these activities it is known as cyberharassment or cyberstalking.

Date rape

“Date rape” is when you’re raped by a friend, someone you’re dating or a romantic partner. It’s also called “Aquaintance Rape.” So, if you tell your friend or apartner you don’t want to have sex and they force you, that’s date rape, even if you’ve had sex with that person before.

Date rape often happens at parties, raves, and other places where people are “partying.” Sometimes, rapists slip “date rate” drugs into people’s drinks. These drugs can knock you out or make you unable to move or resist, making it easier for someone to rape you. It’s illegal to give these drugs to someone.

Date with Rosie palm

Slang term for male masturbation.

Dental Dam

A thin square of latex material used during dental procedures. It can be used to cover a female’s genitals during oral sex to reduce the risk of spreading sexually transmitted infections. The Sheer Glyde Dam is approved by the FDA.

Dick

Slang term for a male’s penis.

Dildo

A penis-shaped sex toy often made of rubber or plastic that is used for sexual pleasure.

Donkey

Slang term for a female’s buttocks.

Double Bagging

Refers to using two condoms instead of one.  Using two condoms is not recommended because they can rub against each other and actually tear more easily.  It is best to use one latex condom, correctly and consistently.

Drag

Dressing up as someone of the other sex, or as the same sex in an exaggerated manner. A drag queen is a man who dresses as a woman, a drag king is a woman who dresses like a man.  Often people who do drag have a stage name and impersonate famous figures by singing and doing comedy for an audience.

Dry Sex

People often have different definitions of what dry sex means.  Generally, it means going through the motions of sex grinding) without inserting a penis into a vagina or into any other body part. (rubbing bodies, thrusting and without inserting a penis into a  vagina or into any other body part.

to be continued……

Love yourself first: Benefits of Mastrubation:

Masturbation, also known as self pleasure, solo sex, and autoeroticism, has long been a taboo subject and an act that most people deny doing. With the help of the medical profession, television, and the internet, it is now common knowledge that most people masturbate, some as often as every day, even if they don’t talk about it.

Historically, masturbation has had a cloud of guilt, shame, and misconception surrounding it, but we are here to tell you that it is normal, not harmful, and good for your health and spirit. It will not cause fur to grow on your palms or cause you to go blind, you will not lose your desire for sex, and it doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t satisfy you. Through self pleasure we are able to learn a lot about our bodies, including what feels good and equally important, what does not. Often the most intense orgasms are experienced during masturbation because you are able to focus just on what pleases you. You can then use this knowledge to improve your sex life with your partner. Most partners want to please each other and appreciate the knowledge gained by their partner telling or showing them what pleases them.

In addition to the obvious pleasure experienced during masturbation and gaining a better understanding of our bodies, there are some other benefits too. Masturbation:

• relieves stress
• boosts your mood by releasing endorphins
• acts as a natural sleep sedative
• is guaranteed safe sex with no risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease
• takes the pressure off your partner if one of you isn’t in the mood and one is.

There are also some benefits that are unique to women only. Masturbation:

• strengthens the pelvic floor muscles for better sexual experiences and bladder control
• helps build resistance to yeast infections
• reduces PMS symptoms like tension, back ache, and cramps
• improves ability to orgasm and the quality of orgasm.

Men also reap some unique benefits from masturbation. Masturbation:

• helps you learn to better control orgasm
• encourage healthier prostate and builds resistance to prostate gland infection
• boosts immune system.

I feel that Mastrubation is one of the best ways to avoid getting HIV-AIDS, unwanted pregnancies and reduce incidence of rapes and sexual abuse.

This was the article published in Bombay Hospital Journal

Scope of Private Practice in Mumbai

Everyone lives by selling something

Health Care Organizations the world over have been going through a lot of churning due to developments in many fields, the rapid growth of knowledge in medicine & other sciences, tremendous developments in technology, increasing trends of specialization have brought in changes in the pattern of delivery of health care.  Dermographic transition, epidemiological shift, increasing consumer expectations and their changing preferences, rapid growth of private sector in health care have influenced the health care immensely. Emergence of evidence based medicine, health insurance and increasing demand for accountability for health care quality are some of the factors which have changed the paradigm in health care today.

Meeting the challenges of operating in today’s health care environment  requires a complete health care reforms and how hospitals & health care organizations are managed. A commitment to quality enhancement throughout a health care system involving all professional and service groups is essential to ensure a high quality of health care delivery.

Quality has to be planned and not left to chance occurrence  or to individual institution. Time for managing the change is running out but it is well known that a crisis period is the best time for change. Health care providers, planners, managers and others responsible for the redirection of  the industry have urgently addressed the issue of quality health care at least in some parts of our country, but still lots have to be  done.

Mumbai a vibrant, financial capital of India has all sorts of health care providers, institutions, private and public… The scope for medical practice is enormous, in every field of medicine. Not only allopathy practitioners but also Ayurveda, Homeopathy, Unani and other alternative medicine practitioners flourish here…Mumbai is facing unprecedented challenges in magnitude, diversity and complexity of health care and its delivery to Mumbaiites..

The Challenges in Health Care in the 21^st century would include population explosion, growing disparity between resources and demand, impact of HIV/AIDS, Increased cases of Diabetes, Ishcaemic Heart Diseases, Alzheimer’s, Infectious Diseases etc  and the changing demographics in the society. At the micro level one has to think of changing role of hospitals and hospital care,, primary care physicians, altered spectrum of disease and increased emphasis on Gerontology and Geriatric medicine. Also one has to change a mindset from curative health care to preventive aspects and to rehabilitation.

The most striking feature in todays health care industry is use of computers..

Are they problem or the Solution ?

Is there dehumanization of patient care ?

The message is clear….

We are entering an era of computer controlled therapy that will drive a wedge between clinicians and patients, offering potentially competent but sterile, impersonal and dehumanizing care.

Despite the fact that there are array of gadgets that could allow medical practice with minimal laying on of hands, yet the portrayal of physicians and others is that they must talk to their patients, hold their hands and provide that unique touch which would give the precise comfort and support that we envision which were widely available when family  doctors made house calls  few decades ago..

Inspite of over two decades of explosive growth of computerization very few physicians personally use the computers in providing critical care.. They mainly use this for office management, accounts , correspondences and may be some for their clinical software…For those physicians who did not grew up in the computer age, this sense of mystery breeds mistrust and even fear. How can I possibly learn about these devises ? How will I use them , or failure to use them, affect the way in which I am perceived by my colleagues or more importantly by my patients ? Will the nature of my work be  changed over time by this machine ? Is there a threat to the traditional role of care giver or a physician ? No computers can replace physicians, but there is a gnawing concern that these machines may possibly affect their practice..It is ultimately the sense of control over the technology, rather than by the technology that will allow practitioners to feel adopting computer based tools for record keeping, and other uses..

Mere existence of the computers as tools for physicians and other health care workers need not be a threat to our goal of human care, with close relationships developing between the patients and care givers, the greatest threat , as to these ideals in our current world are the fiscal, organizational and time pressures that can prevent even the most well-meaning clinicians from finding the time to sit with their patients, to listen and teach and to demonstrate the kind of concern and caring that was ironically probably one of the reasons that they entered the health care field, as the computers recede into the environment, but increasingly help the physicians find information quickly and easily, the result may be the release of time that will be available for building precisely the patient doctor relationship.

Mumbai has all the necessary resources to get all whatever a physician needs to be present in his clinic, which include, gadgets, for diagnosis, computers etc…One has to learn to market his practice… Traditionally the most acceptable marketing tool which was allowed was “word of mouth”, e.g saibaba etc.. but today threre are several mantras which can be adopted to promote the physician ethically. Most of these are time tested and shall prove greatly rewarding to all… Follow up your patients with a phone call, write a column in news papers, journals, magazines,  being on the advisory board of your own community, getting media attention during inauguration of a newly bought laser machine or a gadget with some patients treated talk about the same. Providing public lectures in their own language on common forums  like Lions, Rotary,  Giants etc,  Join a charitable clinic,. Make some pockets of communities near your practice and be in constant touch with them who can refer you patients for ever..

One more important aspect of increasing scope of private practice is Mediclaim… My advice to all is that get all your patients under mediclaim and see the rewards of your practice flourishing…The advantages are that most of the private hospitals are empanelled by the TPA’s and this system will be very useful for the patients to avail the best services at reasonable cost without wasting time on individually finding of facts , which is very difficult to find. And the patients will go to the right place without loosing time and without any tension in mind about the availability of the treatment..

Private Practice can boom to sky if one is consistent, committed,

Brilliant in his work, and develops a brand for himself by getting some media coverage etc after treating some VIP etc …Your scope of practice also increases if one gets a attachment in a five star hospital or a public hospital where interdepartmental references form a major referral ..

One more field which is virgin in Mumbai still and has a tremendous scope is telemedicine….The patient at Virar or Alibaug or in the interiors of Maharashtra can be seen, interacted, xrays  ECGs and scans can be seen, and treatment discussed and of course charged, this is a reality and this can save the time of patient and cost incurred by him to reach at the tertiary care hospital in Mumbai… And the doctor in Mumbai can get a fixed charge for seeing this patients live… This is a reality, and now patients from remote hilly areas in the north of India  e.g. areas like Kargil are being consulted for and even treated by Doctors at AIIMS in New Delhi and even Apollo Hospitals in Chennai through telemedicine…which has one of the highest scopes of medical practice..

One more field which has a tremendous scope is cosmetic surgery,

With the increasing number of Tv channels and Tv serials lots and lots of glamour struck crowd comes for  treatment and for them the looks are more than anything and they are good paymasters..

In the past few years there is so much influx of patients who come from abroad for treatment here, these are patients from Gulf, UK, Malaysia, Africa, and so many neighboring countries…for obvious reasons .This is because one thing is a fact that ,India though a developing nation has one of the finest crafty medical personnel who do a fantastic job when provided with a good infrastructure and all the facilities…The cost of health care delivery specially for certain procedures like angiography,

Angioplasty, surgical treatment like CABG, stereotaxic surgeries, complex tumor surgeries, etc are at least 10 to 15 times cheaper than any other developed country with equal or better results..

We must capitalize on this fact that we do have good private hospitals here in Mumbai and also we should develop our clinics for quality care , make our clinics more patient friendly, get accreditations and be a favorite spot for foreigners who seek to  acquire quality health care. and every family physician can play a major role in boosting his practice and contribute a lot to our country by way of providing foreign exchange  for the quality health care which can be provided to all the foreigners who seek their help…Mumbai can be one of the best centers of medical tourism for the continent in near future., and one must positively think of continued improvement in health care delivery and get their clinics accreditated by ISO or ICHA  etc which are quality assurance certifying bodies universally accepted..

A family Physician or a Primary Care Physician in a busy clinic  in the metropolis of Mumbai plays a vital role in providing  a quality health care to his patients by upgrading his clinic, making it more patient friendly, by adding at least simple things like clean drinking water, good clean toilet facility, a comfortable place to sit for the patients, a good examination table, which is not there in public hospitals including in Mumbai,  they should  have all the records of their patients, update himself with all the academic updates by attending regular CME’s workshops etc and acquire some special skills of Basic Life Support,  Advance Cardiac life support, trauma life support, Cosmetology, Counseling for Diabetic patients, Mental Health counseling etc..and have facility for some common pathological tests like routine CBC, Urine etc..X ray & Sonography facility etc.

Private Practice in summary has a great scope provided every practitioner gives a quality health care to patients which is mandatory and “raison de etre” for the medical profession and I emphasize that it needs 3 ingredients for improvement WILL, IDEAS and EXECUTION One must not forget the fact that we earn, learn and depend on our patients illnesses, pain, discomfort and hence it should be our moral duty towards our own conscious to give our patients more than they ask for…. And this mindset once adopted the scope is infinite and there shall never be a dry or a slack day….

Dr Deepak K Jumani

Porn & Spouse.

How does porn affect the female partner ? what can be done to exit from this ?

Anything can be used as an “exit” from the relationship, (an exit is anything that you use to avoid dealing with intimacy – these things are of course fine if they are not being used as avoidance).  So anything can be used to exit – not just porn – drinking, eating, shopping, talking on the phone, golf, tv, reading, working, over-focusing on the kids,  working out, email, facebook, – but for women, golf and ESPN doesnt involve their partner looking at other naked women (or men).

The threat of porn for most women is that their man is masturbating to images of other people.  Its the masturbating and the fantasy life that is the threat.  Its the fantasy life that does not include them that feels like infidelity.  (This is a conversation in and of itself….)  And if the porn use becomes compulsive, then the “exit” is for sure avoiding being in the relationship, as much as compulsive shopping, eating, talking on the phone, or playing golf all day sunday – every sunday – every week – can be.

Most women are not threatened in the same way by ESPN – they might be worried, annoyed, angry, as they would at any exit, as would any man who feels his female or male partner exiting from the relationship.  However, when it involves the manifestation of an internal fantasy life that doesnt involve the primary partner, it adds a different level of disengagement.

But if porn is mutually enjoyed and used as Fantasy within a intimate relationship as variety  the thought is gratifying.

Semen Allergies

When his semen makes you burn–but not with desire

Here is  a situation where a couple who wanted to become pregnant had hit a dead end due to a semen or “sperm allergy.” For those of you who would like to know what a semen allergy is and how it is diagnosed and treated, here goes…

A semen allergy is caused by an allergic reaction to a particular protein in semen. The onset can vary. A woman could have been just fine with a partner’s semen for a couple of years, and then suddenly start having an allergic reaction to it for no good reason. On the other hand, a semen allergy can be there from the start. Symptoms include burning and itching.

While a semen allergy isn’t totally rare, it’s not particularly common. One way to decide if the reaction you are having is to semen or to something like chronic vaginitis is to use a condom during intercourse. (It’s best to use a polyurethane condom or perhaps one of the new Lifestyles Skyn condoms, given how your symptoms might also be from a latex allergy.) If the symptoms appear only after intercourse without a condom, it’s time to consider a semen allergy.

Aside from a complete gynecologic exam, you will need to get intradermal testing to see if you have an allergy to semen. This is where a small amount of semen is injected under the skin.

Fortunately, there is a desensitization treatment for semen allergy that is safe and effective. You need to do it under the supervision of an allergist or immunologist. It is called a “graded challenge” where diluted solutions of semen are placed in your vagina every twenty minutes until you are able to tolerate undiluted semen. The downside is that the couple has to have intercourse at least once every 48 hours to maintain the desensitization!

Another fascinating thing about semen allergy is you don’t get a bad reaction to the semen of just one guy. If you did, switching partners would be a treatment option, although not always a desired or practical one. If you get a semen allergy, it’s to a protein in semen that all men have.

Also, once you develop a semen allergy, it’s not just in your vagina. The burning and itching can occur any place where semen touches your skin, including in your mouth or up your bum. As is the case with food allergies, a semen allergy might go as fast as it came.

History of Sexology

Sexology, as a science, incorporates into its research and treatment of sexual concerns and dysfunctions the findings of psychology, sociology, philosophy, biology, zoology, anthropology, history, physiology, religion and medicine.

Clinical sexology is not the same as “sex therapy”, which bases its approach on the psychological model of talk therapy.

Clinical sexology has its roots in mid-19th Century England and Germany. Havelock Ellis (1859-1939), an English medical doctor, surgeon and sexologist, was one of the first researchers to challenge the sexual repression of the Victorian Age (generally considered to span the time of Queen Victoria’s reign, 1819-1901) along with its taboo against masturbation (now considered by sex health experts to be a normal sexual behaviour, essential for healthy sexual development).

In 1919, Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld, a German physician and clinical sexologist, founded the first Institute for Sexology in Berlin (Zentrum fur Sexualwissenschaft). The Institute accumulated a vast body of research on human sexual development as well as the treatment of sexual concerns and dysfunctions. It was the first such Institute to offer a clinic for the specific purpose of treating sexual problems.

On May 6, 1933, under orders from the Nazi High Command, Brownshirts broke into the Institute and carried away its vast collection of books, research material and clinical files to be destroyed at the infamous May 10, 1933 book burning on Berlin’s Opera Square. The Institute was immediately closed. In passing, it must be stated that the later institutes, clinics and research of the great 20th century sexologists, Alfred Kinsey, Wardell Pomeroy, and Masters and Johnson had their forerunner in Hirschfeld’s Institute.

After World War II, there was a renaissance of sexology in both America and Europe. In 1948, Alfred Kinsey and his associates founded the Kinsey Institute for sexual research at the University of Indiana. In 1967 and in 1970, medical researchers and sexologists William Masters and Virginia Johnson published their vast, groundbreaking research in two separate volumes entitled Human Sexual Response and Human Sexual Inadequacy. They also founded a teaching Institute and treatment clinic. In 1983, Humbolt-Univeritat zu Berlin opened the Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology to the public.

The science of sexology is now a well established and widely taught discipline in many of the world’s leading universities

What is Sexual Confidence ?

Sexual Confidence is:

Knowing that you are a good sexual partner.

Thinking that you are sexy (regardless of your age or weight)

Being willing to flirt, or touch first.

Freedom from inhibition – you can be yourself in bed.

You are in touch with your desires – you know what you like.

Being able to say “I want you” and knowing he wants you too.

Daring to try something new – a position, sex in the kitchen, being blindfolded etc.

Understanding that a good sexual rapport can take time to develop.

Being unafraid to say no to anything that you don’t want.

Keep a healthy distance between Desires and Relationships.

Not taking your partner’s lack of desire or orgasm as your failure.

Staying calm if your partner loses his erection. (you know it happens sometimes)

Being open to hearing feedback about your technique in order to better please him.

“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”

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